Underrated Benefits of Long-Distance Relationships

#1: It builds faith.

Proximity naturally draws us closer to our partner. Call it a force of habit, but let’s be real here: it’s easier that way.

Meanwhile, long distance can test your and your partner’s faith in each other. Since you’re miles apart, you can’t check on each other beyond using your devices. People or situations may also threaten to break your relationship.

These might seem like cons. But being apart teaches you to trust each other better and stand firm in your commitment.

#2: It makes communication better.

Modern technology hasn’t entirely solved communication issues, but it has made huge strides in making long-distance relationships more bearable.

Social media, for example, has its fair share of issues, including privacy concerns and misinformation. But it makes the distance seem smaller and encourages you to incorporate new ways to make your relationship thrive.

You can reach out to your partner with just a few taps or clicks, share virtual experiences, or participate in challenges. Convenience and accessibility are among the benefits of social media in long-distance relationships.

Moreover, the distance teaches you to be intentional. A 2021 study reported that long-distance couples engage in more frequent texting, voice calls, and video chats than geographically close couples. And with that, they noted that those regular texts were associated with greater relationship satisfaction.

Healthy communication in a relationship is crucial. The distance heightens this need since you can’t reach each other at your convenience.

#3: It teaches endurance.

Distance is undoubtedly a stressor. But as frustrating as it might be, it teaches you endurance. And no, that doesn’t mean being numb and sad forever.

Building endurance is upping your fortitude. The lack of physical closeness sucks, but it shouldn’t make you feel like it’s the end of the world. Don’t wave the white flag at even the smallest challenges.

Your distance will have an end date. Until then, hold on to the commitment you both promised to keep from afar. You can’t win if you don’t exercise patience in a relationship (in this case, a long-distance one).

#4: It shows intimacy in a new light.

Physical intimacy is on the back burner until your reunion. This part is especially challenging if you have physical touch as your primary love language. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t engage in other forms of intimacy.

Verbal intimacy exists. Your conversations can peel back layers, allowing you to feel closer.

Asking your partner how they feel about the distance, for example, yields more meaningful answers. Sharing each other’s sentiments about it can only further your connection. And if you ask us, that’s just as intimate as physical activity, isn’t it?

#5: It emphasizes independence.

Don’t get us wrong: geographically close relationships welcome independence too. But for long-distance relationships, that space gets the extra spotlight.

One of the silver linings of being apart is the heightened freedom. When your partner isn’t around, you realize you have a huge amount of time on your hands.

You can make great use of it to pursue your goals, interests, or desired lifestyle. If there’s something you’ve wanted to tick off your life goals list, there’s no better time to do it than the present. Your relationship shouldn’t be the only thing that occupies your life.

This independence is highly beneficial. And the character growth and reduced pressure lead you to better appreciate your relationship.

#6: It unlocks your creativity.

Since you’re apart, keeping things fresh means thinking outside the box and being resourceful.

A long-distance relationship can give you the room to expound your creativity. If you think you’re uninspired, this distance may awaken your imagination.

For example, the challenge of quality time can be a great motivation to add twists to your usual routines. You can make a routine check-in extra special with a bottle of your favorite wine. If you’re up for it, pair it with a little charcuterie board to make it a surprise date night.

You don’t have to get fancy with this segment. Even the smallest addition of ideas is enough to inject creativity.

#7: It makes you treasure your time.

Not to be dramatic, but since you can’t see each other as you please, every moment or interaction becomes extra special. You gain a greater appreciation for your partner and the relationship itself.

You learn to appreciate every video call. The random memes they send become a pick-me-up. The sweet long-distance love quotes they share feel more heartwarming. You cherish your time together, even if it's virtual, because you know it’ll take a while before you’re under the same roof.